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“And Mommy looks at me like today will be my last day alive.” When does a toddler start to learn right from wrong? What happens in a family that influences a decision going through a young mind? The new children’s book, “I Don’t Want to Turn 3”, explores the interaction between family that is happening in just about every household in the world.
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What goes through a toddler’s mind that parents are so desperate to understand? When does a toddler understand the difference between “me” and “us”? This book explores how a family finds out together.
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WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN "ME & US"
Then all of a sudden Olivia screams “what are my dancing shoes doing in Jordan’s room? ” The entire family runs to my private bedroom and Jackson yells “my dinosaurs” and Levi shrieks “my sea creatures” and Baker bawls “truck” and Grace cries “my dolls”. And Mommy looks at me like today will be my last day alive.
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Then all of a sudden Olivia screams “what are my dancing shoes doing in Jordan’s room? ” The entire family runs to my private bedroom and Jackson yells “my dinosaurs” and Levi shrieks “my sea creatures” and Baker bawls “truck” and Grace cries “my dolls”. And Mommy looks at me like today will be my last day alive.
WELCOME TO JORDAN'S WORLD
Then all of a sudden Olivia screams “what are my dancing shoes doing in Jordan’s room? ” The entire family runs to my private bedroom and Jackson yells “my dinosaurs” and Levi shrieks “my sea creatures” and Baker bawls “truck” and Grace cries “my dolls”. And Mommy looks at me like today will be my last day alive.
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RETIRED- NOW WHAT?
According to the United States Census, 1 in 6 people in the United States are 65 and older. That compares to 1 in 20, a hundred years ago back in 1920. Social Security benefits are received by 48.6 million Americans. 10,000 Baby Boomers are turning 65 each day.
Retirement is not merely a matter of financial preparation, but also an emotional and psychological journey. The challenges we face are not only adjusting to a new routine but dealing with the feelings of purposelessness, how to overcome boredom and restlessness, and managing potential financial constraints.
WHY DO KIDS STRUGGLE IN SCHOOL? UNDERSTANDING THE CHALLENGES AND FINDING SOLUTIONS
As parents and educators, we often find ourselves wondering, “Why do kids struggle in school?” This question has been a topic of concern and discussion for generations. Every child is unique, and their struggles in the academic environment can stem from various factors. But a factor that has affected most kids today is the untimely pandemic that kept them out of school.
Children may face various challenges that lead to struggles in school. Understanding the reasons behind these difficulties is the first step towards providing the necessary support and interventions.
WHY ARE KIDS READING LESS?
According to UNICEF (United Nations Children’s Emergency Fund), only a third of 10-year-olds globally are able to read and understand a simple written story, which means that 64% are unable to cover the minimum proficiency in reading comprehension. This is up from 52% pre-pandemic. Obviously not going to school during the pandemic interfered with the student’s reading fluency which is fundamental for academic development because the reading you learn in second and third grade is crucial as students read to learn about other subjects as they make their way into later grades.
Reading plays a vital role in a child’s overall development. It enhances vocabulary, improves critical thinking skills, sparks creativity, and fosters empathy.
WHY DIVORCE IS SO HARD ON KIDS
From 1900-1930, the divorce rate in the USA was 1.1 out of 1,000 Americans. In the 1970’s it was 4, while in the 1980’s it was 5. Baby Boomers became the most divorced generation in USA history. Luckily today in 2022, the rate has dropped to 2.3 per 1,000 Americans. Perhaps the Baby Boomers’ children did learn from the mistakes of their parents. But the impact on all of our kids is the same, no matter what generation experienced divorce in their family.
Divorce is a difficult and emotional process for everyone involved, especially for children. When parents decide to end their marriage, it can have a significant impact on their children’s well-being and development.
BOOSTING MEMORY IN SENIORS: UNLOCK THE SECRETS TO SHARPENING COGNITIVE FUNCTION
My wife and I many times look at each other and say, “Why can’t I remember her name, or where actually did I put down my phone”. Memory loss is a common concern among seniors, and we are always looking for ways to improve our cognitive function and somehow enhance our memory.
Memory enhancement plays a vital role in maintaining a high quality of life for seniors. Let’s explore effective methods to boost memory in older adults.
OUR FASCINATION WITH PETS
Every month of the year has pet awareness events. For instance, June is National Adopt a cat month, it is National Zoo and Aquarium Month, and National pet preparedness month. June also has National hug your cat day, International Corgi Day, World Pet Memorial Day, National take your cat to work day, Ugliest dog day and take your dog to work day. Why do we care about animals to give them so much attention?
“We know the medical reasons for a pet, but what about the psychological advantages?”
HOMELESS BABY BOOMERS
Baby Boomers think that we are the best generation to come along in this great country of ours. We have been running the government for the last 6 years and look at the chaos we have created. Our children are dying in record numbers from this opioid overdose epidemic and what have we done to fix this issue? And our fellow Baby Boomers are homeless in record numbers…
“Our government cannot solve this issue that should haunt all of us, alone. It takes a web of city agencies, nonprofits, and religious institutions to concentrate on treating and helping the baby boomers who are in trouble. “
WHAT ARE PARENT’S RESPONSIBILITIES IN TODAY’S WORLD?
In today’s world of instant information, uncertainty, cruelty, and differences in ideas, what is the true role of parents? Obviously, parents provide their children with food, clothing, and a place to live. They also are to provide financial support, medical care, and the opportunity to receive an education. And they are to protect their children from harm and provide them with a safe environment that includes supervision and control of any situation.
“So, the real question becomes, in today’s hectic world, how can a parent juggle everything to even come close to instilling these traits into this newest generation? Is it even possible to raise a “normal” kid with everything going on in this country and the world?”
TOO MANY GRANDPARENTS JUST DON’T CARE
We may want to rush to judgement and say “what is wrong with our baby boomer generation” that they are not involved in wanting to raise this next greatest generation. But many of these broken relationships may not be caused entirely by the grandparents.
“While grandparents are crucial in a grandchild’s development, grandparents can also cause a strained relationship with the kid’s parents. They can facilitate dividing spouses and can cause generational anxiety.”
BABY BOOMERS: TIME TO PAY IT FORWARD?
We hold this space as an opportunity to showcase those people we encounter now and then who simply show up every day with a radiant, uplifting spirit coupled with a genuine willingness to give back. That said, as Publisher and Editor-in-Chief of this award-winning global media digest and CEO/ReImaginator for 360° Nation, I was delighted to have the opportunity to get better acquainted with Marc Joseph, Co-Founder of BabyBoomer.org, whose mission is to be part of Boomers’ daily lives – not only to help them find what they need but also enrich their lives and find new friends with similar interests
“If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to the people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.
~Fred Rogers”
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I Don’t Want to Turn 3 is a such a fun book, I read through it twice by myself before reading it to my young nieces. I laughed at the “brat” named Jordan, who spends the book learning the author’s version of the Golden Rule. He learns that he is no longer a baby and has to treat others well. I’ll read it again to my nieces and again to myself and we’ll all learn one of life’s most important lessons. The illustrations are darling and ready for any one-year-old to point at.
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Gramps Jeffery's Award-Winning Book "I Don't Want To Turn 3" Helps Blaze a Trail Out of “The Terrible Twos” By Jim Lamb
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This was an excellent book! An eye-opener into what our kids are thinking. this book is excellent because it teaches selflessness instead of being selfish. Very impressed with this book and an excellent learning tool!
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Wonderful way to share with kids about the importance of sharing!
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What I like about this story is that it's so realistic, funny at times and leaves you feeling good. Children's colorful story about a little child who likes being 2 and knows the things he can do and not get punished.
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I Don't Want to Turn 3 by Gramps Jeffrey What I like about this story is that it's so realistic, funny at times and leaves you feeling good. Children's colorful story about a little child who likes being 2 and knows the things he can do and not get punished. He has many relatives around his age and he starts collecting their favorite toys that he hides... I love that I can actually see and enlarge the words on the pages and can be enlarged. When the toys are all found the dad steps in and I love how this ends. Love charity and helping others less fortunate. The kids will now grow up and continue this practice themselves and teach their children the same things. Like why the author wrote this and the outcome she wanted from the adults involved. There's a saying when I grew up, mom would say 'wait til you have kids of your own' SO true! Received a review copy from the author and this is my honest opinion.
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My kid is mesmerised by the beautiful illustrations and super engaged with the genuinely heartwarming story and message. I must say it's a breath of fresh air ! Fantastic little story My children enjoy it and ask questions. Five Stars One of the best children books I have read this month! Highly recommend it! I only leave positive feedback and reviews when I love the book. Feel free to ask anything regarding this book. A must read for sure. I'd recommend this book to everyone who would like to read an amazing children book. The book is written in a very interesting way . A must read for sure
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One can imagine this book originated from a conversation between author, Gramps Jeffrey and his children or grandchildren. I Don't Want to Turn 3 is about Jordan who isn't excited about his upcoming third birthday. He is used to being treated like a baby and adults letting him have his way because he is so young. When he turns three, he will have to learn about rules, sharing, and responsibility. The more Jordan thinks about it, the more he is looking forward to his upcoming birthday and growing older. This is a simple story which teaches kids social skills, getting along with others, and the advantages and disadvantages to growing up and growing older. It is written from a child's point of view with an awareness that kids can be selfish and bratty at times but are also capable of learning and understanding. The illustrations are charming in a cartoonish way. Jordan is always at the center because kids often want to be the center of attention. He is often surrounded by toys and other people struggling with what he wants and what he has to do. Kids will find I Don't Want to Turn 3 completely relatable and parents will be able to recognize the world from their child's point of view.
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Gramps Jeffery's Award-Winning Book "I Don't Want To Turn 3" Helps Blaze a Trail Out of “The Terrible Twos” By Jim Lamb To paraphrase Kermit the Frog, “It isn’t easy being three.” Maybe that’s why the Twos are so terrible: Who’d want to leave a world where you’re the center of attention? I wouldn’t. Would you? For example, a 2-year-old says “Cookie!” and cookies magically appear—if not, the result can be a Grade A, Number One, Category 5 tantrum. Why? Because, like the seagulls in “Finding Nemo,” everything is “Mine! Mine! Mine! Mine! Mine!” That’s the foundation of Gramps Jeffery’s award-winning book, "I Don't Want To Turn 3" —the story of Jordan, who senses a new world is coming. Gramps opens the door to that world with story-telling and engaging illustrations. The best way for adults to get the most out of the book is to read it carefully multiple times before sharing it with children. Here’s why: Each page builds momentum towards a moment of realization. Preparation frees up parents and grandparents to observe a child’s body language to determine when to start a conversation. Some kids pick up on where the story is going early—some later. Here’s the essence: Jordan, age 2, begins with an attitude of “Mine! Mine! Mine!” That prompts him to take things from other children. When his antics are revealed (on his birthday, no less) the result is devastating—but it opens the door to learning valuable life-lessons. And it’s not theoretical. Gramps Jeffrey has six grandkids. During the pandemic, he spent time interacting with them. His book emerged from that. For example, Gramps took photos that were transformed to lively illustrations. Then he used the names of his grandkids, adding to the authenticity. Little wonder, then, the book won a Firebird Book Award and was recognized for “Honoring Excellence” by the Mom’s Choice Awards. "I Don't Want To Turn 3" was published by Authorhouse in paperback, Kindle, and hardcover. It’s available online, including Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Walmart. (ISBN-10 1665526947 ISBN-13 978-1665526944) ABOUT: In addition to "I Don't Want To Turn 3," Gramps Jeffrey (aka Marc Joseph) is the author of "The Secrets of Retailing... How to Beat Walmart" and a contributor to The Huffington Post. His areas of expertise include planning, recruiting, staffing, leadership, problem-solving and team building.
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I Don’t Want to Turn 3 is a short picture book story written by Gramps Jeffrey for young children. The story starts with Jordan who is turning 3 really soon, but he is not very excited to turn 3. In fact, he is very reluctant to turn 3 because, in his mind, Jordan is able to do anything when he is 2. Once he turns 3, his parents and everyone around him will have different expectations of him. That would suck big time! His fear of turning 3 led to a series of mischievous actions, but nobody would know, would they? Anyway, nothing bad ever happens to him when he is 2. I Don’t Want to Turn 3 is a perfect depiction of what the average family goes through with a toddler in the house. The character, Jordan, showed the struggles and dilemmas that a child regularly faces while growing up. Gramps Jeffrey has successfully captured the natural human desire and instinct that is portrayed, even from a young age, to take whatever they like and keep it for themselves. I also really liked how Gramps Jeffrey incorporated the importance of helping others in need, as well as sharing with those around us. The wide array of characters of various ages also showcases the importance of this life lesson to people of all age groups, and it also heightens the complexity of the storyline. Moreover, I really enjoyed the colorful illustrations throughout the story, which intensify the moral behind this tale. I would recommend this book to young children for its valuable life lesson behind a very realistic and relatable story.
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Birthdays – do we really want them? I mean, who wants to turn a year older? Especially when things are going so well at the age we are currently. As Jordan is quickly learning, approaching the age of 3, each year of our life we have more expectations placed upon us. Scary! And, sometimes, overwhelming!
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Have you ever wished to be a child again? Yes, we all have gone through those moments when we suddenly yearn for our lost childhood. The time when our parents cradled us and kept us safe, when we had nothing to worry about, nobody to blame us, no responsibilities. Life was easy, wasn't it? Then we grew up and everything changed. In this book, Jeffrey explores the universal human desire to run away from problems and to be selfish, preoccupied with only their own things. Although Jordan is about to turn 3 years old, as soon as he realizes that with age comes an increased sense of responsibility, he becomes reluctant to accept it. He wants to continue being the little boy who never gets scolded. The story skillfully narrates different ways in which our protagonist acts out in his own interests and towards the end, he is caught red handed. It's important to note here that when his father reprimands Jordan, he doesn't use shame or fear to influence the child towards the right path, instead, he lets the other children express their emotions after losing the dear objects and this helps Jordan to empathize with them, to understand their grievances. Beautifully illustrated, this is a simple story with a valuable message hidden within it. One needs to learn to shoulder their responsibility, to be accountable for their actions and to generously share their possessions with others. Recommended for children aged 3-6 years and parents who wish to read out stories to their kids.
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I Don't Want to Turn 3 by Gramps Jeffrey is a story that revolves around a boy named Jordan, who is just one day shy of turning three. Jordan believes that the day he turns three, his life will become challenging, and all his freedom will be snatched away! Jordan imagines the worst and he frets over how his parents might start holding him accountable for all his actions and will expect him to be more responsible overnight.
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About the Author
“Gramps Jeffrey”
As the author of the acclaimed business book “The Secrets of Retailing…How to Beat Walmart” and a contributor to The Huffington Post of over 100 articles on how to help the nonprofit world and also help grow small businesses, Gramps’ commentary is quite timely in the challenging world we live in.
